The Laurel Foundation

The Laurel Foundation Changed My Life

2011-10-31T09:24:00.000-07:00

It seems impossible to express in a few paragraphs everything that The Laurel Foundation has meant to me or to capture the essence of all the little miracles that I have witnessed at the many camps that I have attended. I immediately responded to the vision of The Laurel Foundation. This wasn't just about providing an escape for kids living with HIV/AIDS. Margot Anderson, the founder of the organization, had a vision of providing the campers with an experience that would empower them and provide them with the tools to meet the challenges that they would face throughout the duration of their lives. This vision is one of the things that really differentiated Camp Laurel and The Laurel Foundation and has kept me coming back over the years.

I first became aware of Camp Laurel during the summer of 1996. I had just graduated from college and most of my friends had already moved away. I was bored and channel surfing when something grabbed my attention. It was an episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show. While I only caught the end, it was evident that it was about children living with HIV and AIDS. As the credits began to roll, they flashed the numbers of a few summer camps dedicated to children living with what at the time seemed a terminal illness. I silently made a commitment to myself to volunteer the next year. The following summer I found myself volunteering for not one but two different camps. Camp Laurel was one of them.

I witnessed something at that first camp that I will never forget:

A group of counselors, including myself, were taking a large group of campers rock climbing. And it wasn't going so well. There were the typical teen attitudes of being too cool for this. There was boredom and impatience. There was disinterest. And probably a great deal of unexpressed fear. The staff was frustrated and at our wits end when a counselor approached a girl sitting on the sidelines.

The girl was in a wheelchair and in the process of going blind. She was facing health issues that most of the other kids had yet to encounter. The counselor simply asked her if she would like to try. And she said yes - so two of the stronger counselors lifted her from her wheelchair. She was helped into a harness by the instructor and the three men raised her to the side of the cliff. With their encouragement, she made a tentative step, their hands guiding and spotting her.

And then something amazing happened. Some of the other campers started to notice. People glanced over out of the corner of their eyes. Conversations stopped. Counselors and campers began to gather around to cheer the brave girl on. Soon, every single camper and counselor was gathered around, cheering.

The girl did not make it to the top. She took three brave steps. And, as a result, nearly every other camper followed her example and, in the very least, tried.

It is a vision I have never forgotten. Although the girl passed away soon after, she has stayed with me over the years. Sometimes, when I find myself in situations in which I need to find inspiration, to draw upon my own reserves of courage and resilience, this scene returns to me. I remember not only this girl and her bravery but the way an entire community rallied around her in that moment. As I reflect back on all of this, I am moved to tears after all these years - not as much from sadness as at how breathtaking and magnificent the human experience truly is.

One small act of courage can touch the lives of so many. I think of Margot and the risk she took in starting Camp Laurel. How monumental and overwhelming the task before her must have seemed. How almost everything worth doing is done with patience and persistence, one step at a time. This has been the story of my life as well - a lesson I learned from Camp Laurel.

In the last 17 years, The Laurel Foundation has offered year round services for kids and their families living with HIV and AIDS. I have been fortunate enough to have participated in many of these programs: traditional summer camps, winter family camps, spring leadership camps, trips to Yosemite and snowboarding in Mammoth, holiday parties, among others. While some of these have been cut due to budget issues, the initial vision that Margot had lives on and continues to evolve.

The Laurel Foundation literally changed the course of my life. As a result of my involvement with the organization, I became a Special Education teacher. While pursuing my Master's degree, it became increasingly difficult for me to be involved with camp. This last summer, after a 7 year absence, I finally returned. I was a counselor for eight 8-10 year old boys. The 17 year old Counselor-in-Training who was placed with my group had been a camper in my cabin 7 years earlier, the last time I had volunteered. It blew my mind to see what an amazing man he had become.

I must admit that I felt some remorse at having missed out on witnessing all these kids grow up. As I told a friend who later became a volunteer himself, consistency is one of the most important things you can offer a child. The Laurel Foundation has been a consistent presence in these kids' lives. They have grown up with camp. Just as I have.

As a result of my returning to the fold, I was approached about participating in the LEAF mentorship program - an opportunity which thrilled me. When they mentioned who they had in mind as my mentee, it rang a memory bell. The next time I visited the offices, they confirmed his name. This time I pulled out a photo of me and a smiling boy. "Is this him?" I asked. Their jaws dropped in disbelief. It was Josh. On the back of the photo there was a date: July 11, 1997. The photo was taken on his birthday, outside the dining hall, right after I had presented him with a birthday cake. It was the only photo I had left from that first camp. Unfortunately, the rest had been lost in a move many years prior. I had set this one photo aside because it had always meant so much to me, epitomizing that special bond between camper and counselor.

Later, when we had our first official meeting as mentor and mentee, I gave a copy of the photo to Josh. I reminded him of my camp name, "Bunny", and asked him if he remembered what he was called. Without hesitation, he replied, "Little Bunny". Since then, we have met up twice and talked on the phone many times. I am excited to see where this journey takes us, just as I am to see where the LEAF program takes the Laurel Foundation as a whole.

The seed of the Laurel Foundation was planted what seems like so many years ago. It began with a conversation Margot had on a treadmill at the gym. It was just an idea then, the seed of a vision. But the seed was planted and it has continued to grow like its namesake - a Laurel tree.

This I can say from experience:

The Laurel Foundation changes lives. It has certainly changed mine.

Message From A Former Camper

2011-08-03T09:20:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone my name is "Spike" which is my camp name or Erik in the real world.

I have been fortunate enough to be apart of Camp Laurel and The Laurel Foundation. It has changed my life.

My sister was diagnosis with AIDS and passed when I was 10 years old, She had a son Anthony who was 3 when she passed.

Living life in the real world was hard, people were scared of us. At that time people where prejudice, crude, and scared.

It was like I had to be secretive about my sister having AIDS and then secret about her passing, just to fit in. My family was devastated we all were finding ways to cope with life and it was hard.

My mom, went on to educated women about HIV/AIDS and got connected with organizations to learn more about the virus, and she found The Laurel Foundation.

Thank God She did. Home life was a bit of a mess: my parents were divorcing, my grandfather passed away, and I was giving in to peer pressure. I was a very rebellious child at the age of 13. I went to my first camp and I will never forget it.

It was a Fall Camp Laurel session and it was a trip to Space Camp in Northern California. I had never really been outside of Los Angeles so I was scared to meet all these new people. I came to realize that it was so much fun and then something happened. I got into some serious trouble. I was very rebellious and was told I would be sent home. Scared I pleaded that I would change my behavior. I have never been in a place where I was so accepted, free from society and free from the prejudices of HIV/AIDS. I didn't want to go home. Margot Anderson (the Founder), bless her heart, saw something in me and gave me a second chance. Needless to say I was good from then on. I even received the Apollo award, at a later camp program, for being such a great role model for other campers. Me a role model, yes! From that one moment at my first camp my life was forever changed. I found a family that understood me, an extension of who I am.

I loved camp so much that when I started to grow up and it was time for me to move on ... I just couldn't! I decided to become a camp counselor. Being the first or one of the first people to go from camper to counselor was an amazing experience. It gave me huge respect for the counselors I had as a child and all counselors. It was long hours, but so worth it. Plus, I had the energy for it. I loved my cabin kids and I saw myself in them at their age. Now I was able to give back to them, what The Laurel Foundation had given to me so graciously. It was the best time I had ever had.

But it didn't stop there! So remember how I said my mom was a bit of a crusader well it's true my mom suggested we create an AIDS Ride for The Laurel Foundation.

The ride was suggested to The Laurel Foundation by my mom and with the help of MANY, it was created. It was FANTASTIC and continues today as an annual fundraiser for The Laurel Foundation! My mom rode every year up until she couldn't and then I jumped in and rode. My first bike was a mountain bike, heavy and rough. Every year after that first ride I would get better things ... like a bike! It is my highlight of my year to raise money and give back to The Laurel Foundation. Riding for the kids is an amazing experience.

The Laurel Foundation has change my life and given me a sense of self, honesty, fun, and family.

I am fortunate to have The Laurel Foundation in my life because if they weren't, my life would be VERY DIFFERENT.

Thank you Margot for that second chance.

Thank you Laurel Foundation.

Love
SPIKE
aka Erik

NATIONAL VOLUNTEER WEEK

2011-04-08T09:38:00.001-07:00

I recently visited with one of our campers to introduce her to her new mentor through our LEAF Mentorship Program. As we all chatted I asked her if she had received her camp photo from Winter Family Camp. She said, “Oh yeah, it’s already up on my wall. You wanna see?” Her face lit up as she stood up to show us to her room. When we walked in the door I could hardly believe that this young teenager (you know how teens can sometimes be “too cool for school”) had her entire wall above her bed covered with years of pictures and memorabilia from Camp Laurel.

In that moment I couldn’t help but think of you; our amazing volunteers. You have made such an impact and become a source of joy and hope to so many of our families in a way that you couldn’t possibly know. You are the faces on their walls encouraging them and reminding them that someone believes in them. You are the memories in their hearts reminding them to laugh and try new things and to be adventurous. You are a part of them and a part of us.

The great men and women of our time were not necessarily the wealthiest or the most charismatic or even the most popular. They were people that possessed a generosity of spirit and a hopeful determination to see our world grow in love and service to others. Our volunteers are beautiful reflections of these legendary souls and we are undone with gratefulness for your commitment to The Laurel Foundation.

Next week is National Volunteer Week. We wish that there was something that we could give to each of you to show our gratitude, but our hands our empty. Our hearts however, are full of love and appreciation for you. You make a difference; you change lives.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts

Cheria Young

Director of Volunteers

Photo by Marcella Atallah

Camper Turned Counselor

2011-03-24T10:19:00.000-07:00

I've been coming to The Laurel Foundation since I was 7 years old. As a camper I had amazing experiences and beautiful memories were made thanks to the phenomenal staff and counselors who I looked up to. I wanted to become a counselor one day; it was a dream for mine. But once I turned 18 things changed in my life that blocked my path. This went on for 3 years and of course during those 3 years I felt that something was missing. Goals that I had set for myself came tumbling down one after another. I hit rock bottom and was down there for a while; I lost everything, my dignity, pride, and myself.

I then moved back to my mother's house, where I started to pick up the pieces and myself. I decided to leave everything behind and start a fresh beginning. Then I remembered The Laurel Foundation (Camp Laurel), where I had encountered great moments, love, and friendship. This was what I was missing, I then asked for an application and printed it out. As I read the application, I felt a sense of relief and was reminded of the support that surrounded me. A few days after I interviewed to be a counselor, I received a call that I had been accepted. I was very excited that I got that chance to be part of camp again. Words couldn't describe what I was feeling, this was a dream come true for me. From this moment on I felt that nothing could bring me down. I felt accomplished and I knew this time around I would do things right.

The Laurel Foundation means a great deal to me, it's a part of my life and my second family. It's a place where we can come together, meet others, interact and build bonds and memories that will last forever. It's a place where I am not afraid of being myself. It's a magnificent experience that people can't understand until they’ve experienced it firsthand.

I'll admit that as we drove home after Winter Family Camp I cried a lot, not of sadness but of happiness, accomplishment, and appreciation for what it had done for myself and for others. Camp gave me confidence in myself and although it took me a while, it broke down several walls that I had up. The Laurel Foundation has made me the man I am today. I don't know what I would have done and how I would have turned out without Camp Laurel and The Laurel Foundaiton in my life. THANK YOU!

- Josh

2011-03-15T14:33:00.000-07:00

Christie’s Place-A Woman’s Voice Conference - March 14, 2011

On March 12, 2011 Christie’s Place in San Diego, California hosted a conference in honor of National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. The Laurel Foundation helped with this event by providing an all day camp program for the children attending the conference. Our own Cecilia Melgares (Outreach Co-ordinator) attended this event. Here is her report.

This past weekend, I attended Christie’s Place’s annual Woman’s Voice Conference in honor of National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. The Laurel Foundation hosted a program for the kids, led by our one and only Mowgli and his fearless team of volunteers, Froggy, Sol, Olé, Coco, and Jazz.

I had an amazing time bonding with the families, and learning about their experience with our organization. A mother of a former camper explained to me that after her son came back from camp his outlook on life had changed; he was more enthusiastic and accepting of himself. She said, “Camp Laurel changed my son’s life.” I was so INSPIRED! Thank you to all of our staff, volunteers, and donors who make Camp Laurel possible! It truly changes lives!

Thank you to our wonderful volunteers for helping to make this event a success. And to Christie’s Place and their continued effort to empower families affected by HIV/AIDS!

Cecilia Melgares
March 17, 2011

More Winter Camp 2011 Photos

2011-03-09T10:26:00.001-08:00

Wanted to share some more Winter Camp photos!

Photos by K. Buckner

Winter Family Camp Photos

2011-03-04T10:27:00.000-08:00

Photos by M. Atallah and M. Anderson

Just finished Winter Family Camp! It was our BEST EVER! A full report will be coming shortly, but in the mean time I wanted to share some photos!!! Thank you to Tink, Cheerio, Cecilia, Shout Out, all our Head Counselors, Medical Staff, Relief Counselors and Volunteer Counselors, Bus Check in volunteers, donors and friends of The Laurel Foundation for making this Camp happen!

A CAMPER'S POEM

2010-07-03T22:04:00.000-07:00

It's not what I'm dyin of

it's what I'm livin with......

Life....

Before I begin I will say my name.

My name is Yolanda Marie Williams.

I'm 17

Born with HIV.

I look in the mirror and ask myself, how long can I hide this secret?

Yet, it's nobody business.

But I feel uncomfortable not sharing my message.

Life is alot of pain.

People judge you by what you say do or even look like.

But before I say I'm infected, could you tell?

Never in your wildest dreams, do you think it can't happen to you.

But in reality it doesn't matter it's trying to destroy you.

I'm not upset because I have this powerful thing taking over my body.

I'm not upset that my birth mother gave it to me.

But what I am is happy.

Because I use every bit of education and do the opposite of the negativity.

Anything is possible, you just have two live up two the consequences.

When I was born they told me I wasn't gonna live pass three.

Well, guess what I'm here today fighting this disease.

When people here HIV/AIDS

They think this is it.

Others often leave you only because they fear of catching it.

I laugh when I hear people talk about it because if you notice there are

almost 10million infected.

And yet their lived ones know about it.

It's nothing you can cure yet.

But there is treatment. My treatment isn't only the medicine, it's the

people who've been there through thick and thin.

I 've been through millions of medicine.

Seem not to do much.

I've been callled the mistery child.

Everytime I'm in pain they can't figure it out.

I call myself the gifted child.

Because at the right time my blessings come.

I've gotten sick because of a dose of

medicine.

I know I'm strong.

I know my weakness and my strengths.

I don't know how to end this poem.

But I will leave telling you this,

It's not what I'm dying of

It's what living with it.

Writtn by: Yolanda Williams (camper)

4/20/10 (11:57) PM

Camp is Two Days Away!

2010-07-01T09:08:00.001-07:00

Camp is two days away now. Lots going on in the office here! La La has done a great job recruiting campers, as right now we have over 105 kids attending! Sadly though we have a huge wait list. Hopefully next year, funding will allow us to get all the kids to Camp!

Also we started working on a new documentary! It will be 2 years in the making. We are following 3 kids from camp! It is going to be AWESOME!

Summer / Teen Camp 2010

2010-06-23T17:28:00.000-07:00

Well we are just about one week away from Camp and things are getting busy in the office. We have hired all our 45 volunteer staff, 10 volunteer medical staff and have over 95 campers so far signed up. We anticipate well over 100 campers by next week!

Thank you to all the hard work of our dedicated staff here, Lara Fogelman, Rachel Russell and Margot Anderson. Yes that is right, there are only 3 staff members putting this Camp together! But we have had many volunteers come into the office this week to help out as well. Thank you to everyone. It really does take a village to make miracles happen!

So we will be updating this Blog daily now, so you can get a feel for what is going on in the office here! So check back tomorrow to find out what new things are happening!

Remember too that we are about a month away from our AIDS Dance/Party Marathon! Time to sign up! It is going to be so much fun!

Here is the link!

http://www.camplaurel.org/index.php?option=com_eventlist&Itemid=64&func=details&did=6

Other news. We are working on a new documentary. It will follow 3 kids from Camp over 2 years. We have a 9 year old, a 16 year old and a past camper who is 22 and was at our first camp in 1994. We will give you updates on this as well.

Have a great day!

Camp Laurel DANCE MARATHON

2010-03-31T17:18:00.001-07:00

August 7, 2010, that is the date for our new fundraising event. Remember those AIDS Dance Marathons way back in the 90's? Well, we are brining it back!

This event will be the most talked about fundraiser this year! We will have celebrities, actors, singers, Drag Queens, all there to help us keep everyone dancing!

DANCE DANCE DANCE!

We are making this a reunion of sorts too. Our goal is to bring back all the past and present counselors and campers over 21 to celebrate 18 years of Camp Laurel. Everyone has said it is time to have a reunion... so

we are doing it. All to raise funds to help children, youth and their families living with HIV/AIDS attend Camp Laurel's programs in 2010.

For more information please visit the Camp Laurel web page at: http://www.CampLaurel.org

OK, signing off for now.

Oh, listen to the Kevin and Bean show on KROQ (106.7 FM) on Friday morning at 8:05 AM. They are interviewing me. Yikes!

Or listen to it on the web at http://www.KROQ.com

Family Winter Camp Report 2010

2010-03-15T15:02:00.000-07:00

WINTER FAMILY CAMP REPORT

FEBRUARY 13-16, 2010

“Somewhere Over the Rainbow” there’s a place where love is bountiful and hugs are a’ plenty. Winter Family Camp 2010 was just that place where the ground was covered in snow, the campers were full of excitement and the parents were ready to have some fun! The stress and stigma of HIV/AIDS was melting away, just like the snow on the ground. Returning once again to YMCA Camp Arbolado, 92 campers, including children ages 3-17 and their parents/guardians, joined the Winter Family Camp experience.

Winter Family Camp is unique because it gives parents and guardians the chance to experience what Camp Laurel is all about. Now, instead of just hearing their children sing the camp songs they learned at Summer Camp, they can sing along to the songs they learned together. Winter Family Camp, with the help of highly trained medical and counseling staff, helped create an atmosphere where campers were able to forget about their illness and enjoy life. This was achieved as participants pushed past their comfort zones by trying new activities, developing a stronger family unit, and creating supportive relationships with their peers.

Reflecting on experiences at Winter Family Camp throughout the year is one way to bring smiles to the faces of parents and guardians who deal with the stressful realities of HIV/AIDS. The proof of their personal growth is apparent as they reconnect with the Camp Laurel once camp is over. One parent called to express that her feelings of isolation and loneliness decreased while her confidence in her ability to parent has grown through her participation with Camp Laurel. Another parent expressed that Camp Laurel taught him about togetherness and tolerance, while he feels the life lessons learned at camp made him a better parent as he discovered his son could be independent.

For parents, the self-awareness and new surroundings at camp give them a chance to see their children in a whole different light that transcends beyond camp. They observe their children as leaders and role models; they laugh and play with their children in a safe and non-judgmental environment. There is hope. They can exhale.

In a world where the worries of HIV/AIDS are ever present, the Counselors-in-Training (CITs), through the superb guidance of veteran counselors, Ruben and Lorenzo, set an example to the younger campers of what it takes to be a leader at Camp Laurel. Ranging in age from 15-17, the CITs are campers who have shown true leadership skills, both past and present, and continue to demonstrate what it means to be a positive role model. They were truly the Yellow Brick Road that helped lead other campers to success by guiding them through difficult obstacles.

This year the sun smiled down at us with perfect weather. And as the campers and volunteers winded their way down the mountain with warm hearts and big smiles, singing camp songs until there were no more songs to be sung, the bright and colorful rainbow of Winter Family Camp 2010 reflected brightly in the sky, reminding them of the amazing memories that were made this year and of the new memories to be had at camp next year.

As one parent said, “Camp Laurel has given me and my kids a better outlook on life.” I guess there really is NO PLACE LIKE CAMP!!

UN warns HIV/AIDS leading cause of death in women

2010-03-03T16:59:00.000-08:00

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8546655.stm

Volunteer at Camp Laurel this Summer!

2010-03-03T16:21:00.001-08:00

Camp Laurel is now accepting Summer Camp Volunteer Applications! Click on this link to download your application now!

http://www.camplaurel.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=30